The reality sometime could be so difficult.
Struggling with the everyday life, going to work paying bills. The money, the time is never enough. If something bad is happenning,like some extra pressure which we cannot handle...
In that moment I just feel like I want to run away from everything.
I want to go somewhere, where the Sun is always shining and is no dark rainy days.
In a place where I do not have to face any problems and I have everything I need to enjoy the life. That is not a reality.
Look at the roses, they are beautiful, but they have thorns too like our daily life. To escape the hard part of reality is a good thing for me to concentrate just at the roses not the thorn.
To escape from the hard reality for me is, be thankful for the everyday in my life even thou I have difficulties.
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Mar 8, 2007
Escape From Reality
In today’s world, people are so overwhelmed with so many troubles and problems in their life’s . A lot of us, are strong enough to face and do something about them but many of us are not and are drown slowly into depressions, drugs and alcoholism. Perhaps we ran out of energy and believe in ourselves or simply lost our self-esteem. It looks like a huge percentage of that crowed are young people which are turning to alcohol and drugs as their escape from reality. I think this is wrong. I think is a very short run and eventually will cause health issues and perhaps ending up in jail or other institutions. If you drink or doing drugs you might be in your escape mode just for a little while – couple of hours to a day, but there is another day when you wake up and all your worries and troubles are still there. In my opinion the real challenge is to find within yourself positive thinking and believe that you can change your problemsand that there will be a brighter light at the end of the road. As a young man, I do too have worries and at times I get into troubles, but I’m aware of all the consequences of turning to bad habits are greater than the risk. Myself, I tent to listen to the music a lot when I want to escape the reality. My favorite artist that I listen at that time is Enya. Her music is amazing and touches you so deep in your soul that makes you to just get up and do something nice and constrictive. It relaxes you. Another artist that actually my sister introduced me to is Josh Groban and his newest CD – called Awake. One of the songs on the cd is " Don’t give up – you are loved" . Please check it out – I want to dedicate that song for all these people that are out there struggling with their everyday problems. Do escape from reality, we all need that at times, but escape to the brighter side, positive and more encouraging.
"Don’t give up" By Josh Groban
Don’t give upIt’s just the weight of the worldWhen your heart’s heavy
I will lift it for you
Don’t give up Because you want to be heardIf silence keeps youI…I will break it for you
Everybody wants to be understoodWell I can hear youEverybody wants to be loved Don’t give upBecause you are loved
Don’t give upIt’s just the hurt that you hideWhen you’re lost insideI…I will be there to find you
Don’t give upBecause you want to burn brightIf darkness blinds youI…I will shine to guide you
Everybody wants to be understoodWell I can hear youEverybody wants to be lovedDon’t give upBecause you are loved
You are lovedDon’t give upIt’s just the weight of the worldDon’t give upEvery one is to be heard
Don’t give up Because you want to be heardIf silence keeps youI…I will break it for you
Everybody wants to be understoodWell I can hear youEverybody wants to be loved Don’t give upBecause you are loved
Don’t give upIt’s just the hurt that you hideWhen you’re lost insideI…I will be there to find you
Don’t give upBecause you want to burn brightIf darkness blinds youI…I will shine to guide you
Everybody wants to be understoodWell I can hear youEverybody wants to be lovedDon’t give upBecause you are loved
You are lovedDon’t give upIt’s just the weight of the worldDon’t give upEvery one is to be heard
Escape from "reality"
The life is very nice but at the same time is very difficult because everybody have problems, but for that we can escape from reality of differents ways, for example for me, talking by phone with my mom for two hours because she lives in Colombia, the other way is watching a good movie with my son, but the best is staying alone because I can escape from reality for a few moments.
Escaping from Reality.
Generally people are, always make their life happy.When they are in youth ,Full of expectations of many dreams and desires. They may full filled their desires and dreams,When they grown up,they may encounter many problems,difficulties and lot of tress with in the themselves.
They will seek to come out of their difficult situation's. They choose many ways to come out from their frustration and real difficult situations. Some are imagining completely out of their real life. And some are choosing temporary solutions like taking drugs, worldly pleasures and spending time alone, to escape from reality. But they seems to be escaping from reality . We can change our life better, But we can't change or escape from reality. No body can change their gray hair to black. They may apply black color to showing black instead of gray. But after few months the color will go, the gray hair only remains. " The reality is reality." Imagination and temporary solutions are can't change the real life.
They will seek to come out of their difficult situation's. They choose many ways to come out from their frustration and real difficult situations. Some are imagining completely out of their real life. And some are choosing temporary solutions like taking drugs, worldly pleasures and spending time alone, to escape from reality. But they seems to be escaping from reality . We can change our life better, But we can't change or escape from reality. No body can change their gray hair to black. They may apply black color to showing black instead of gray. But after few months the color will go, the gray hair only remains. " The reality is reality." Imagination and temporary solutions are can't change the real life.
Living in soup operas you can escape from reality
Some people enjoy watching soap operas because it allows them to escape from reality. I am not sure about people here in the US, but I know that people in my native country - Ukraine - are preoccupied with soap operas.
Unfortunately, sometimes people start living in those soap operas, without even realizing it. They worry about the characters as if they were relatives or friends. Even more, some people imagine themselves being those characters. The identification with character becomes so great that the lines between reality and TV become blurred.
However, as time passes, the real life problems not only don't get solved, but accumulate and worsen. Simply because people, engulfed by imaginary life, forget to live for real.
Unfortunately, sometimes people start living in those soap operas, without even realizing it. They worry about the characters as if they were relatives or friends. Even more, some people imagine themselves being those characters. The identification with character becomes so great that the lines between reality and TV become blurred.
However, as time passes, the real life problems not only don't get solved, but accumulate and worsen. Simply because people, engulfed by imaginary life, forget to live for real.
Escape from Reality
Everybody is escaping from reality ,but we have to accept what the truth is?Sometimes we are trying to run from reality. We dont want to accept the truth. According to my personal experience there are lot of things happening that I dont want to accept. I pray to god every time its going to be dream, but I cant. When i opened my eyes I cried a lot. Because I never see my grandparents, I miss them every time in my life. They died before my born. When I saw my cousins they enjoyed lot of time with there grandparents , I miss my grandparents. I pray to god please send them back , I dont want anything from you in my whole life. But its a reality , and i have to accept that. Its a big truth of life .
Dreamers
Some cultures program you to escape from reality since you are a baby. You start hearing all kinds of stories that make your imagination fly to the fantasy world. Your parents tell you about Christmas, a guy with a red outfit, kind of heavy, that is going to bring you presents if you are a good kid. They also describe to you how he comes with a sled pulled by deers and stop on the top of the house and goes down the chimney, and he is expecting cookies and milk from you. Another story is when you loose teeth and the tooth fairy is going to leave you money under your pillow. It is all kinds of stories; some are funny and cute, other are scary. Have you ever seen the movie Monsters Inc.? Kids hear noises at night and they start thinking of all kinds of things. They let their imagination let them think that there is some kind of monster in the closet.
We always dream because it makes us feel good. I think everybody goes there, to the imaginary world. There are plenty of ideas to dream about it. One day I am going to marry my knight in shining armor or one day I am going to hit the lotto and I am going to do this and that...we all dream; we all, one way or the other, escape from reality. We all are dreamers, some people dream about having a lot of money, having political power, or some kind of power, or going to Las Vegas and hit the Jackpot or who knows. The thing is we have to come back from there and deal with the reality. Other people go there and never come back. Those people need mental treatment. Reality is not so bad, we have to learn how to deal with it and be happy.
We always dream because it makes us feel good. I think everybody goes there, to the imaginary world. There are plenty of ideas to dream about it. One day I am going to marry my knight in shining armor or one day I am going to hit the lotto and I am going to do this and that...we all dream; we all, one way or the other, escape from reality. We all are dreamers, some people dream about having a lot of money, having political power, or some kind of power, or going to Las Vegas and hit the Jackpot or who knows. The thing is we have to come back from there and deal with the reality. Other people go there and never come back. Those people need mental treatment. Reality is not so bad, we have to learn how to deal with it and be happy.
Mar 7, 2007
Escape from reality
In our life, we can never avoid our reality but we can escape by many ways. I have some ways to escape by myself from my reality. Some time I get stresses or tired, I breath deep and close my eyes for a while. When I was bored at every things, I almost do not want to see every body. At that time, I go some place where everybody can not find me ,see me even talk to me. There, I only spent a lot of time to relax my mine. I do not want to think about anythings. Every things seem be out of my mine. Other way, I try to do some thing which is interesting such as buy some things for myself, or some time I eat a lot until I can not walk anymore. One time, I do it anyway. I do not care what will happen after. Some time that way is not good. Anyway, when I want to escape from my reality, I just try to do some thing else which help me relax my mine.
Escape from Reality
In attempt to escape from reality, a person might create a small world to which he or she only is familiar to. For example, one man who has been wealthy for his whole life might think that they will never encounter financial problems. However, if at one point he goes bankrupt he would feel the world falling down and would try to find a solution to his problem. First, the man would most likely begin to drink to the point that he would do it everyday. Then, the man would probably begin using some types of drugs making him addicted. When the man does this he does not improve his problem, he only makes it worst. The man would be unable to think of what to do in order to solve his bankruptcy and will eventually, affect his own health. Finally, the man might abandon his family, because he feels guilty that he did not do a good job to keep his family from suffering financially and emotionally. This is just one of the many ways a person might try to escape from reality.
Run awy from rearlity
What is a person life about?
It is about simple,complicate,and hard thing go throw anyone 's live every day ,and every moment.They will bass throw any one life.Those thing are not something it will knock on your door,and open our eyes on the truth. It will go away, live is about good or bad memory. When people try so hard to hied the truth.Like when the snow cover the earth,and every thing look white and clean for Short or long Period of time,until the snow melt away. Than everything will go back the same.but people try so hard to keep their mistake away, and with a cover around it, so no one can see it.Because it is the human nature they like to stay in the dark so if any one want to see what is going on in their life. It will be so hard to see something in the dark,but if the person strong .He will stand in the light and face the real life,and reality,"like my grandfather use to say snow will melt away and the earth will stay there and no one can change it". That means whatever the human hied,one day ever thing will be in the light so anyone will be able to see the right picture what kind of person he is.
Then some of those people the do something else like going to the move theatres to watch a movie or they go to the bar to drink to get drunk. So when the go back home the will never remember anything or they start to do drags,because they don't want to now what they did wrong,or they know,and they don't want to faced it.They only want to remember what make them happy,or stuff the can care around whatever they do in life.
As soon as the door close on you,with out you doing something about it will be hared on you or anyone else to open the door again, and face the truth in real life. That when the person start to hied thing, I hope ever one try to faced the reality of life
at less try".
It is about simple,complicate,and hard thing go throw anyone 's live every day ,and every moment.They will bass throw any one life.Those thing are not something it will knock on your door,and open our eyes on the truth. It will go away, live is about good or bad memory. When people try so hard to hied the truth.Like when the snow cover the earth,and every thing look white and clean for Short or long Period of time,until the snow melt away. Than everything will go back the same.but people try so hard to keep their mistake away, and with a cover around it, so no one can see it.Because it is the human nature they like to stay in the dark so if any one want to see what is going on in their life. It will be so hard to see something in the dark,but if the person strong .He will stand in the light and face the real life,and reality,"like my grandfather use to say snow will melt away and the earth will stay there and no one can change it". That means whatever the human hied,one day ever thing will be in the light so anyone will be able to see the right picture what kind of person he is.
Then some of those people the do something else like going to the move theatres to watch a movie or they go to the bar to drink to get drunk. So when the go back home the will never remember anything or they start to do drags,because they don't want to now what they did wrong,or they know,and they don't want to faced it.They only want to remember what make them happy,or stuff the can care around whatever they do in life.
As soon as the door close on you,with out you doing something about it will be hared on you or anyone else to open the door again, and face the truth in real life. That when the person start to hied thing, I hope ever one try to faced the reality of life
at less try".
Mar 6, 2007
reality
" Can you cover the sun its light with mud? Of course not.Reality is also like the sun. If you close your eyes to the sun its turn to the dark just for yourself. Escaping from reality looks like just closing your eyes to the sun but sun is always out there."said famous Turkish writer,many years ago.
Even that author was sure that reality is something nice but these days many of us don't think so. In our environment , we can encounter many situations.Some are bad and some are even good. Unfortunately,many of us try to hide from reality when it doesn't feel good or is not beneficial.
Those who have very negative views often see realism in a very pessimistic way. Escaping reality is only a way of avoidance. Those who try to hide from all the aspects of true reality are not truly escaping. The bad things will still be there. Just as the sunlight will always exist even though we may attempt to shield ourselves from it.
Our outlook towards realism is developed by our own personalities.Any incidence in our life can be taken good or bad according to our point of view.For example;when we look at a half-full cup of water we can either see the empty or full part, according to our personality and our intentions.This is very crucial. Those that see the glass as half empty will usually believe that reality is always negative. Those that see the glass as half full will usually focus on the good things and see realism as something good.
We are all human beings and our lives will always have it ups and downs. In order to make it through we have to think positively, day always comes after night.Even when its night the sun still exists, it is just shining somewhere else . It depends on how you look at things.
Even that author was sure that reality is something nice but these days many of us don't think so. In our environment , we can encounter many situations.Some are bad and some are even good. Unfortunately,many of us try to hide from reality when it doesn't feel good or is not beneficial.
Those who have very negative views often see realism in a very pessimistic way. Escaping reality is only a way of avoidance. Those who try to hide from all the aspects of true reality are not truly escaping. The bad things will still be there. Just as the sunlight will always exist even though we may attempt to shield ourselves from it.
Our outlook towards realism is developed by our own personalities.Any incidence in our life can be taken good or bad according to our point of view.For example;when we look at a half-full cup of water we can either see the empty or full part, according to our personality and our intentions.This is very crucial. Those that see the glass as half empty will usually believe that reality is always negative. Those that see the glass as half full will usually focus on the good things and see realism as something good.
We are all human beings and our lives will always have it ups and downs. In order to make it through we have to think positively, day always comes after night.Even when its night the sun still exists, it is just shining somewhere else . It depends on how you look at things.
Mar 5, 2007
Escape from Reality
Reality can be very difficult sometimes. Many people have their own ways to "escape reality" when something is wrong in their life. My way of escaping from reality is to clear my head of all my thoughts and focus on the positive if something is wrong. I used to try different ways to escape from reality, such as, staying alone, watching tv ,reading different books, talking to my best friend who is my mother-in-law, drinking coffee, shopping and hearing music.I remember my grandmother saying to me, "Be strong and be able to face the reality at every time." I can give advice to everyone just to be strong and never give up.
Escape from "Reality"
Sometimes reality is different from people are expect. Some people are
happy, healthy and prosperous. The others have very hard, unhappy life.
When they have not enough strength to face the adversity, try to escape
from reality. Some of them choose the bad way to forget about problems.
They drink alcohol, take drugs ,and destroy by yourself. The most of them
never return to the reality. Sometimes escape from reality takes the other
shape and give a lot of benefits. For example, the people who experienced
death or serious illness in their family escape from reality through help
the other people.
People are looking for happiness in life without problems and adversity.
However,"Life, it is not a Tale" so said proverb in my country.
happy, healthy and prosperous. The others have very hard, unhappy life.
When they have not enough strength to face the adversity, try to escape
from reality. Some of them choose the bad way to forget about problems.
They drink alcohol, take drugs ,and destroy by yourself. The most of them
never return to the reality. Sometimes escape from reality takes the other
shape and give a lot of benefits. For example, the people who experienced
death or serious illness in their family escape from reality through help
the other people.
People are looking for happiness in life without problems and adversity.
However,"Life, it is not a Tale" so said proverb in my country.
Mar 4, 2007
Escape from Reality
At certain time of our life, everyone wants to escape from reality at least for a while. Everybody does it in theirs way. It depends how strong is his/hers character not to get in the bad side of the life.
For me, escaping from reality means to do something that makes me forget about what is hurting or racking my mind. For instance, I like to dream at nice things. I am a day dreamer. When I fall into dreams I can’t hear a thing around me. In that moment I am just with my dream. In my dream the life is flowing in the way I want and is based on principles I make. I would like to transpose it into reality but, because it is just a dream I wake up in the same situation I was. However it was just a dream, most of the time after it I find some helping ideas to get myself out of the rack.
Therefore, going out from reality is a good practice for me and helps me to see things that I couldn’t see with open eyes.
Mar 3, 2007
Escape from reality...................
Reality is the live we life, its not a dream or what we imagine. Life is not that complex, but at the same time, its not that simple. People are different, some are strong enough to face there problems, and others are not. That is why some people try to escape from reality. They try to run away, as far as they can, hoping when they come back to reality, not to find these troubles any more. But unfortunately reality is always waiting for you. People have different methods to escape from live, some will just drink as much as they can, and sometimes they end up at the hospital with alcohol toxicity. Others fly with there imagination to another world,were they free themselves from everything. After all no one is perfect, we all seek perfection but we do not reach it. Everyone is looking for happiness in life, but no one knows the way to happiness. Happiness is the trip, not a station you will reach.
Mar 2, 2007
Escape from Reality
If you want escape from reality you can do it in many different ways. Sometimes people want to go away from reality and they usually do it because of all their problems. If somebody wants to escape from reality, probably you must be in quiet place that no one can see you or talk to you. Your mind must be somewhere ells. You can’t keep paying attention to something important. At that moment of the time, you begin escape from reality. You aren’t thinking about your problems. Only positive thinks are on your mind. This process takes different period of time. It can begin when you are listening favorite music, watching interesting movies or playing on some musical instruments. It can begin when you take a bath or drive a car also. Here, isn’t very important a place or the time when you are in this condition. This process can begin in different situations witch out your plans, but sometimes you can make it when you want. One ways to do it, is to take drugs, but it isn’t the good way to escape from reality, because after that, you will have a big problem which your health and your life at all. In conclusion, escaping from reality can be done in many offbeat and interesting ways.
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