Two Sides of Freedom in America

When I came here, I was surprised by American lifestyle, taste of food, culture, dressing style, and language, everything is different here, but the most surprised thing is the freedom. Freedom for every child, especially women even they are from other countries, the rules are same for every person. I had a lot of problems when I came here in the USA, the initial surprise upon entering in the USA was truly mesmerizing. It being my second ever ride outside India. Huge airports, tall buildings, wider roads, big houses and cars, and the list goes on....It seemed as if the entire world around me had got magnified, to at least twice its usual size!
In America, on gets 24-hour water supply, with both hot and cold option everywhere. The same is true for electricity as well, medical emergency service is available at the press of a button. Basic amenities are all practically guaranteed by the government to everybody.
Frankly it was a new world for me altogether. With so many amenities at one's disposal, who wouldn't feel free? Freedom from the daily "Indian" routine of travelling in over crowded shuttle bus/trains, hurrying to get the household chores done lest the power would go off, waiting for the water supply to take bath....
There is freedom of opportunity in getting admission to a school/college or getting a job.
No discrimination (neither reservation) based on sex, caste, religion, etc exists. Every teenager gets on the bread earning wagon as soon as they reaches 15 thereby becoming self dependent. American girls drive buses and trucks, play soccer alongside guys, practically do everything that boys do!
However, not everything there is all good . Else the country would become the mythical heaven. There is the "other side" to this freedom as well, as the children get on their own early, they never have the "Indian" attachments towards their parents or relatives. People have a hard life, particularly in their old age when they need their near -and -dear- ones alongside.
Marriage has become practically a "joke" there.People divorce and re-marry for petty things. The culture of single parents has crept in steadily and comprehensively.
The freedom of opportunity that non-Americans "enjoy" there is equally stark with economy down, American companies don't even allow foreign students to seek employment with them. Getting the green card and citizenship of the country has become next to impossible.
Though America might be good for earnings some quick bucks and enjoying the "good" side of freedom for a while, it's not so when it comes to settling down for life.